Are you looking for a way to get your ex back after a breakup? There are some tips and tricks you can use to get your ex to change his mind and return to your open arms. Read below for ten common ways to consider.
1. The first piece of advice is to let your ex think you’re over the breakup and moving on with your life. The idea is to break your ex’s trust because he thinks you can get on with your life without him.
2. If your ex blames you for the breakup, go along with it. Take the heat for causing the break, whether it’s true or not. This can take the steam off them because they have nothing to blame you for.
3. Try to act hot and cold with your ex. At some times you can be friendly with them if you need to and at other times seem distant with them. This technique will keep your ex guessing what your intentions are.
4. Maybe it’s time to change your appearance. Get a haircut or a new hairstyle. If you need to lose weight, do it. Whatever it is, do what you can to improve your appearance, which in turn will improve your outlook. This in turn will make your ex wonder if he was holding you back from improving your life.
5. Don’t waste time reliving your life. Once your ex catches up with you doing business as usual, your ego will be bruised thinking that you are no longer the center of their universe.
6. One way to make your ex second-guess the decisions they’ve made is to get their friends and family on your side. This will isolate them and force them to rethink their situation.
7. If you want to make your ex jealous, try lightly flirting with someone in their presence. They will not get along that another person is interested in you and loves you even more.
8. Be in control of your emotions. Don’t let your ex play any of these tricks on you, just ignore them. This will render his plan useless and put the power in your hands.
9. You can try to get a friend to go on a fake date with you. Doing so would make your ex jealous and make him try to win you back.
10. Always be in a good mood. Don’t let your ex see you sulking or looking down and away. He wants it to look like he’s doing great and that he’s happy with his situation.
The idea of using any or all of these tricks is to defend or reverse whatever strategies your ex may have, ultimately getting him back with you. Even if they haven’t thought about getting back together with you, these tips can get them thinking about you again.
