Many women underestimate the orgasm that oral sex can produce and do not enjoy fellatio at all. Many times this is related to your level of love for your partner and is not really related to oral sex at all. If that’s the case for you, you may need to examine your relationship, because kissing and oral sex are a very important part of human sexuality. One of the first concepts that women hear from an early age is that great care must be taken not to touch the male erection with the teeth. Women get so caught up in this that they don’t enjoy what they’re doing at all.
The male penis is not as sensitive as the female clitoris, and hitting it with your teeth is fine. Regardless, the best oral sex for a man is at a slow to moderate pace, so there is nothing to worry about. Fast fellatio, being the best fellatio is a myth. The glans, or the head of the penis, actually responds better to slow, firm pressure, not fast pressure. Most men don’t even know this, because they don’t even take the time to explore it. Their brains are not naturally wired for slow sexual release.
So remember, slow and steady is your goal here. Popular culture has falsely portrayed quick oral sex as superior. It is not. The other tip that’s golden is not to obsess over giving your man stimulation to swallow. This is more mental than physical for a man and carries great physical risks for a woman. The back of the throat is very fragile and can be seriously injured quite easily. Take no chances in this regard.
