There is the “sex”, and then there is the “SEX!” We’ve all had simple missionary-style sex that gets boring over the years. If you’re just having standard, boring sex, then you’re really missing out on the true orgasmic pleasures of true mind-blowing sex.
If you want to experience amazing orgasms, you just need to follow these 3 sex skills:
1. Lasting sex. This needs to be mentioned first because it is a HUGE reason why women and men experience no orgasm at all or have very lousy and weak orgasms.
Obviously, this falls more often on the man. The man needs to learn to last a long time during sexual intercourse and not experience the common problem of premature ejaculation. This is a sexual skill that you simply have to learn if you want to give your partner incredible orgasms. And if you suffer from premature ejaculation, then your own orgasm is WEAK. Rapid ejaculation orgasms just aren’t as strong as those that take longer to achieve.
To last long during sex, you need to learn some physical exercises and some mental breathing techniques to calm your mind and not overexcite it (which is known to cause rapid ejaculations). Practice squeezing the little muscle between your anus and testicles that you can feel when you urinate and come up midstream. Flexing it will make it stronger and allow you to last. It takes a few weeks to get used to, but it’s definitely worth it for both you and your partner.
Now, if you’re a woman, your job is to encourage your guy to learn to last. Give him the exercises and help him practice them so you can have the long-lasting sex that you and he deserve.
2. Mastery of oral sex. This is the second best sex skill to master because oral sex is incredibly pleasurable! Let’s be honest, oral sex feels amazing.. It is often much more amazing than normal sex. For this reason alone, you need to master this skill in a big way.
If you are a woman, you can easily learn some amazing techniques to give ridiculous and mind-blowing orgasms to men. The kind where they look down in utter disbelief at the pleasure you’re giving them.
If you’re a guy, it gets a little more complicated. Honestly, most guys don’t have a clue about “going there.” There are definitely certain techniques and rhythms to learn and top tips that work wonders for amazing orgasms. These are the kind of orgasms that women remember for years to come. You can part ways with a woman, and then see her a few years later, and that initial look she’ll give you will automatically carry back memories and images of those amazing nights of oral pleasure you gave her. That’s how powerful good oral sex can be.
Some oral tips to start with are to take it easy at first. Do not rush down and drool. Go slowly and gradually increase your pace by developing a steady rhythm. Listen to her! If he is responding well, continue with what you are doing. If there is obvious room for improvement, let him guide you a bit to where you feel better. Eventually, you’ll want to learn the skills of oral sex where you won’t need guidance, but will provide her with ways to please her that she didn’t even know about.
3. Hot sex positions. We talked about the missionary being lame. That’s because there are so many other positions to choose from and experience that are much “hotter” and more erotic than the typical missionary.
The key to amazing sex is variety. And the variety will come in the form of changing your sexual positions. As an example, a small sample of your standard rotation of sexual positions might be as follows: have it on top, go from behind, insert from the side, straddle the sitting position. There are many variations on sex and they are all incredibly pleasurable. The key is to mix it up. Learn as many as possible and rotate them.
Don’t just learn the standard sex positions, learn oral sex positions like 69 where you both perform oral sex at the same time.
