Have you ever wanted to approach a woman at the bar or coffee shop, but didn’t know what to say or do? I know it can be very frustrating. You probably didn’t intend to meet women that day, but she is so hot. Maybe she is with friends or alone. The way you approach a beautiful woman is different if she’s alone than if she’s with friends.
Approaching women who are lonely
If you see a woman you like to meet and get to know, don’t wait. Go ahead and approach her. Don’t wait for her to notice you before making a move. Don’t stare at her expecting to make eye contact. You don’t want her to catch you looking at her, nervous, obviously wanting something. You will come out creepy. If you don’t want to meet women, but you see a woman you like, go ahead and approach her.
Relax, approach her smiling and greeting her. You can continue her conversation by telling her that you saw her from there and that she is beautiful and that you had to come meet her, otherwise you would have kicked yourself for the rest of the day. And then continue to have a fun, informal conversation. Tease her, make her laugh out loud and not be needed.
Avoid doing the interview. The interview is when someone asks a lot of generic questions. A conversation is not a monologue. Don’t expect a woman you just met to keep the conversation going.
Approaching a group of women
Approaching a woman when she is with her friends can seem intimidating. But it is not difficult at all. The difference is that you have to ignore it, at first. In a group of women there will always be one woman more attractive than the rest. She is used to receiving the most attention from men.
When you approach a woman when she’s out with her friends, talk to her so she’ll open up to you. Ignore her at first. This will tell her that you are different from all the losers who came up to her and started flirting with her. She will be intrigued.
You will want to make sure that you are the most attractive of the group. She’ll try to get your attention, and when she does, you’ll have to tease her for intruding. By the way, don’t be rude, just tease her jokingly.
This shows her that her appearance doesn’t have that kind of power over you. When she understands this, you can start moving your attention to her. By now, her friend will be okay with you talking to her and even going with her.
Whenever you approach women who are with friends, don’t ignore the friends. Besides being rude, you’re just doing what other losers do. Drooling like a dog at his appearance. Make her feel okay, she looks amazing, but you need more than one woman. You need substance. She will try to impress you and start chasing you for your approval. This is where you want it. This is how you build attraction.
