Breaking news! There is no gadget you can buy, no pill to take, no chant, full moon or anything else you can recite to attract women. Go online and you’ll see everything from “love pills” to hypnotic techniques that are guaranteed to have the girls lining up and breaking down your door. The truth of the matter is that it is not rocket science. All you really need is common sense plain and simple. Nothing more and nothing less.
• Always look your best. The first thing that will catch a girl’s attention is a guy’s physical appearance. Always make sure you look neat and clean. Cut your nails and hair. Looking like a scruffy bum won’t attract girls. Flies maybe and cops possibly, but no girls. Policewomen maybe, but you don’t want that kind of attention.
• Dress for success. Now that you smell good, it’s time to dress up. Just because she’s headed to 7-11 just a block away doesn’t mean she can wear that dirty, torn sweater she’s been wearing around the house for the past week. For all you know, the girl of your dreams is buying a bag of chips at the same store. One look at that shirt and that’s all it’ll ever be. A dream.
So try to dress up a bit, but make sure it’s appropriate for where you’re going. Your clothes don’t have to be designer or exclusive brands, although this would help, as it will tell people that you have good taste. So if you can afford it, don’t skimp or be stingy. Clothing is also an investment. They say a lot about the person who wears it. As long as they look neat and tidy.
The same goes for shoes. Get rid of the six old, torn and never washed Nikes. As they say, it’s all in the packaging. Invest in a pair of good shoes. Most women love shoes. Look in your closets and most have more shoes than days in a month. That being said, notice how women almost always look at what shoes the approaching person is wearing. When they see that you have a good pair, they will proceed to critique the entire package.
• When you’re in a public place like a bar, don’t be loud or too smug, but also don’t stare into your drink or appear meek as a lamb. Pull your shoulders back and always have the beginnings of a smile on your lips. If you find a mark and the two of you make eye contact, smile at her if she smiles back and she’s alone, move closer.
• Chill out. Now that you’re talking to her, don’t fret or worry. If you’re nervous going into the bar, first have a seat and a drink or two of liquid courage to calm your nerves.
• Communication. Be upbeat, friendly and keep the conversation going too. Remember that attraction is not only physical but also mental and/or emotional. So be sure to use hand gestures.
