Do men like foreplay? I bet so! The analogy is really simple. The more and better the foreplay, the greater the sexual tension; and the greater the sexual tension, the more powerful the climax.
Also, men are already known to cum faster than women during intercourse, so foreplay can be a good way to keep him constantly aroused while reaching your own sexual highs.
Preliminary Move #1: Look But Don’t Touch
Participate and star in your own peepshow tonight. Use the element of surprise by simply walking in front of your man in the living room (or while he’s lying in bed) completely naked. It pretends nothing is wrong and starts twisting, bending and turning to give you images you can’t believe you’re seeing.
Of course, his tendency would be to grab you for lovemaking after seeing you in your ‘compromising positions’ but don’t let him. Instead, ask him what else he wants to see or see you do.
When you feel like you’ve tortured him enough, give in a bit and say “Okay, now you can use your index finger and touch me ONCE wherever you want.” Then he can touch you again, but this time for a longer period of time.
Let this continue until he begs you to let him touch you!
Preliminary move #2: Who’s the daddy now?
You’re so used to being the boss between the sheets, right? Well, tonight, show him who’s the real boss!
To get off to a good start, you have to be the one to take the first step. That’s how it is; be the one to initiate sex. For example, if you’re already in the room ready to call it a night, make sure you deliberately undress in front of him. If he asks what you’re doing, ignore him! Then get into bed and give him a good kiss, rubbing your hand (or yourself) against his growing member.
At one point, you’ll probably want to take the kidneys. If this happens, stop it. If he makes a move to lie down with you, push him back on the bed and lower him! When you want an oral of your own, climb on top of her face. Never lose control of the situation.
When you’re ready for a thrusting action, get on top of him instead of doing missionary position.
Preliminary Move #3: Up and Down, Up and Down…
If you really want to delay her orgasm, try the start-stop technique. For example, practice fellatio and when you feel like he’s so far away that he’s about to come, stop what you’re doing and focus on other parts of his body.
When he’s relaxed a bit, go back to his member, but this time just use your hands. When he’s ready to pop, relax again and kiss him hot and wet on the lips. (Keep in touch. Don’t drop everything you’re doing. That would be bad!)
Now go back to his member by sitting on him and riding him. Relax when he is so hot and play with his nipples.
Not only is this stop-start technique delaying his orgasm, but since he never knows what you’re going to do next, it’s mind-blowingly erotic.
Dos and Don’ts of Foreplay
It’s important to be CREATIVE when it comes to foreplay. However, sometimes practicality needs to be part of the mix as well. Just because something has been mentioned A LOT in some women’s or relationship magazine, doesn’t mean you have to jump on the bandwagon too. For a quick guide, read on to find out what MEN think are good and not-so-good ideas to do during foreplay.
the OJs
nude photos. You know he likes to watch nudes. So why not give him a nude photo of you? Of course, you would have to REALLY trust him to give you a nude photo or risk seeing yourself paraded in all your nude glory on the internet! However, here is an idea that can bring the best of both worlds.
Have YOUR digital camera ready next to your body. While you’re riding him, walk over, give him the camera, and tell him to take a picture of you, ONCE. That will give him, and you, a huge adrenaline rush. Then, during the afterglow, look at the picture together and then delete it.
So you made one of her sexual fantasies come true AND practiced safety by deleting the image immediately afterwards. There is no risk to see yourself online now.
Be a different woman tonight. Role play can be a great turn on. You see, most men do NOT want to treat their woman anything less than gallant in bed for fear of being labeled as tough, dirty, or even weird. That doesn’t mean they don’t want to do it! As for you, maybe you want to have rough sex from time to time. The solution, to be a different woman tonight by giving away a completely different wig.
For example, if you are a brunette, go blonde or vice versa. Give her no clues and just walk into the bedroom naked with nothing but the different wig on. That’s instant turn on for your man and you both have a license to go crazy tonight.
A bit of slavery… Women love to be pleasured down there, so why not make it even more exciting for him and you by adding a little bondage? Have one of his silk ties nearby or wear silk stockings that he can take off during sex, and then have him tie your hands together loosely while he puts it on you. Later, ask him if he wants you to return the favor. A silk tie or a pair of silk stockings isn’t nearly as threatening as a rope of handcuffs, so this is a great way to get a taste of bondage to begin with.
Write bad words… on his chest. As he brushes his teeth, pet him and pet him to get the sexual flow started. And then, take out your red-hot lipstick and start writing the sexiest and/or dirtiest words you can think of on his chest. Write it backwards so you can read it over the bathroom mirror.
The DON’TS
Chocolate syrup is overrated! Don’t get me wrong, chocolate syrup can be a great foreplay item. However, do not overdo it. There’s a fine line between wet and sticky, sexy and dirty. For example, pouring some chocolate syrup on your breasts for him to lick off is sexy. Putting a bit of it on his member for you to lick is also attractive.
However, emptying an entire bottle or tube of chocolate syrup all over the body is very messy and sticky. In addition, it produces strange, screeching and unattractive sounds between their bodies during intercourse.
stiletto heels Wearing nothing but high heels is damn sexy. But take them off when you lie in bed to have sex. Those pointy things are bloody dangerous!
Lubricants and sexual lotions. Be picky when using sex lotions and lubricants. Some of them may smell good, but once you taste them…yuck! Major off. So the next time you want to try a product, try it first before you go and pour it all over your body.
