Losing the love of your life and getting back together for a second chance at love is exciting and humbling. Sometimes it’s true that you never know what you had until it’s over. I’m glad you’re looking forward to a second chance at love.
I would like you to think about what you would like to do once you get back together. Can you hold the love of your life for hours or talk to him? The reason you need to think about this is because you need to get excited about getting back together. Get rid of the doubts and negative thoughts about staying away from your ex.
How should you get that second chance at love?
You probably know some of the reasons your relationship didn’t work out, and figuring out what you could have done differently will help you get back together. The key is to understand what is in your control to change and focus on these things first. The best chance you have in love again is to be as capable as you can to complete your partner.
I would also suggest that in your attempts to get back together you don’t try to force love back into your relationship because it will fail. Love cannot be manufactured, bought or manipulated. There are people who believe that everything has a price, but it is not true for real love. Let your second chance at love come naturally and it will be more solid this time.
Which is the first step?
Let your ex see a different side of you, if possible. If you’ve always been quiet and reserved, it might be time to step out of your comfort zone. Maybe be a little bold and take the initiative to get back together and create the right environment for a second chance at love. It won’t happen by itself or luckily like it does in the movies. You can make it happen. The only thing you need to be careful of is making mistakes that hurt your chances of getting back together.
What is the next step?
Get in touch with your ex or if you are already interacting with him, make sure you say the right things and bring up topics that may involve your ex and make him want to talk to you. These conversations should be pleasant and not tense or confrontational.
