A guy who doesn’t return your phone calls: does that mean he’s busy or playing hard to get? Men are used to chasing, but when the tables are turned and women get a dose of their own medicine, how should they deal with it?
Do not give up.
Test his resolve by making him wait for your phone call instead of the other way around. So do you feel like he has been ignoring you for the past few days? Don’t worry. If he is really attracted to you, he won’t be able to resist the urge to get in touch with you.
Send him a short text message.
If you just want to test if you still have a chance with him, try texting him. His answer would pretty much sum up what you expect as an answer. If he responds immediately, it only means that he is very interested. If he wouldn’t even bother to text, then you know what that means!
Show him that you are busy.
Wouldn’t it throw him off if he saw you hanging out with your girlfriends the same night he went out to a movie with his friends? This would make him think that you are living your life and that his elusive scheme is not working at all.
Play their game.
When he doesn’t call, don’t spend the day waiting. Instead, spend your time on things that are worthwhile. And when he does finally call you, let his first phone call go straight to your voicemail. This should drive him crazy!
He is the Ice Prince, so speak to his heart.
A guy who plays hard to get can come across as cold and uncaring. He is not fooled. If you are really interested in him, play the role of the great detective. So he won’t talk? Then it’s time to fish out the details without seeming too nosy. In order for him to pay attention to you, you must be an intelligent conversationalist.
Never seem too anxious.
Show him that you are a little interested in him. Also let him see that you still talk to other men and actually enjoy other people’s company.
Analyze his flirting cues.
If a guy won’t get back to you or seems uninterested, it’s time to take a look at his more subtle cues. Does he often look in your direction? Or does he touch you more often than necessary? If so, he is quite interested and it is up to you to use your girl powers to trap him for good.
