If you want to go from idiot to Casanova, you have to prepare yourself for hard work and a steep learning curve. But if you see it through… boy is it worth it? Knowing how to please women is definitely an art, a comprehensive art that could never be adequately covered in a single article. However, I will give an overview of some tips that will make you a better man overnight.
STEP 1 — Understand that you must maximize your life
When I was 21 years old, an ex-girlfriend gave me a big revelation. We were talking about sexual attraction, and she said, “You know, women like a good body on a man just as much as men on women.”
That was a real revelation. It is not a joke. Before that, I had always taken my appearance for granted. Maybe it had something to do with media conditioning, which never portrayed women as really aggressively pursuing sex (Sex and the City was actually a pioneer in that regard).
Yes people, women are also attracted to animals. If you want to know the number one rule of how to please women, it is to make the most of what you have. Sure, you may not have been born with the George Clooney look, but that doesn’t stop you from maximizing what you’ve got. And I firmly believe that all making the most of what we had, then we would automatically give off an attractive vibe.
Go to a stylist and get a proper haircut. Educate yourself on fashion and get a curated wardrobe of premium clothing instead of buying in bulk at the local discount store. Change your watch for a more beautiful model. Discover the joy of loafers on sneakers. And most importantly, exercise like your life depends on it. Build a body fit for a Greek god, making sure you look like a champ in a baggy t-shirt. You want women to look at you and wish their claws were deep into that chest.
STEP 2 — The days of the metrosexual are over — long live the alpha male!
Face it: women want true men.
The days of the metrosexual are gone, thank goodness. Don’t even think about plucking your eyebrows, twenty different forms of skin care, or worst of all, being a serial apologist. I think this is one of the old secrets of how to please women.
Metrosexuals get trampled on. Metrosexuals are human rugs. The alpha male does not tolerate games and has a strong enough mind not to give in when things get tough. You have to be as strong mentally as you are physically. He thinks of learning a martial art to reflect this.
Just don’t be a pushover. Women don’t want a pushover. Like it or not, the politically incorrect model is back. Women don’t want to be with someone they feel might dominate. Be prepared to stand your ground if you feel you are right when an argument breaks out.
And believe me. If you’ve developed the alpha male aura, women will notice it, and be attracted to it, from a hundred yards away.
STEP 3 — Learn the art of body language
I truly believe that this is the most important psychological skill you can learn.
After all, many attempts at seduction fail when the conversation between two strangers dies. Now, many people will say that it is because the two individuals were not compatible. That’s silly: it’s always possible to build a good relationship, even with a complete stranger with whom you apparently have nothing in common.
Body language is a great way to break the ice and reassure yourself. If you can tell that the lady is interested (or receptive) with you, that should give you the little ego trip you need to make sure the conversation sticks. Study body language a lot, because you have no idea how much it can help you. It is the number one weapon in the arsenal of any master seducer.
Summary
I have barely scraped the tip of the iceberg when it comes to understanding how to please women. But I hope I have given you some thoughts and ideas, and you can even start to apply yourself. Maximizing yourself is primarily a physical pursuit; honoring your alpha male traits is mostly a mental quest; and learning body language is a combination of the two. If you can even improve one of those areas, you’ll already be a much better seducer than you were before reading this article.
