The problem that many guys make in their relationships when it comes to arouse her sexually it’s that they have a massively flawed game plan.
It’s like they’re on this mission to find the ONLY WAY to turn her on.
In other words, they are looking to do ONE THING to take her from not in the mood to extremely aroused in seconds.
Not a smart approach.
The guy would be much more effective trying to figure out what “combination of things” would get her from Level 1 to Level 2 (where Level 10 represents her being fully aroused).
Then from there you should figure out the “mix of things” that would take you from Level 2 to Level 3.
When you take a much more relaxed approach, the success rate goes from 9% to 70% because all you would have to do is focus on using simple (and reliable) tactics like:
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giving him compliments
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making her feel sexy
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making her feel wanted
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making her feel special
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Make her feel special in a creative way.
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Project calm confidence
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caressing her
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Smiling and making her laugh.
As you can see, you don’t have to be a rocket scientist to do these simple things. I always tell my clients to master the basics before moving on to advanced psychological tactics.
Here are a few more things a man can do to get started.
Arouse her sexually Tactic #1: Touch and caress. Obviously, this applies to guys in relationships. If you’ve been in a relationship before, you’ve probably created sexual tension with this method. When done correctly, it’s one of the easiest ways to turn a woman on.
Getting Your Tactic Sexually Aroused #2: Get her to fantasize about sex. According to a documentary on the Discovery Channel, if a man can get his wife to think about having sex during the day, when she gets home, chances are she’ll want to have sex.
Why not go a step further?
- Discover their sexual fantasies.
- Discover his idea of ”perfect sex”.
- Find creative ways to get her thinking about sex.
The key to success with this is to mix it up. For example, if you were to think about your favorite show, you would notice that all the episodes have the same structure.
Even if you like the show, if you were shown the same episode every day, it would get old. When it comes to making her think of sex, mix it up. In one day, ask him to think about past sexual memories. Another day, have him think of sexual scenarios, etc.
Getting Your Tactic Sexually Aroused #3: On and off methods. This is one of the general and basic structures to create various types of tension (sexual tension and orgasmic tension). It’s all about adding pleasure. Removing it. Adding more pleasure. Removing it. The best way to understand this is NOT to look at the mechanics of sex as a series of thrusts of the penis, but rather as a series of ‘pushing it in’ (add pleasure) and ‘pulling it out’ (remove pleasure).
As you can imagine, this builds more orgasmic tension compared to just “putting it on” and holding it there without any movement.
When it comes to making her horny, you want to create psychological movement.
You will want to use the same structure when it comes to building SEXUAL tension.
Instead of trying to find the ONE TACTIC that will turn her on in a matter of seconds, start with a combination of trusted tactics with the goal of getting her one step closer.
Having a flawed game plan when it comes to generating sexual arousal is one of the biggest mistakes you make.
