It’s hard being a boy; you always have to come up with a strategy to get the girl you want. This can be problematic since you don’t know what type of girl you are approaching.
So instead of coming up with a cheesy pick-up line to impress a woman, try doing something different this time. What about becoming the good guy? Women are always looking for men who they believe are loving, kind, and helpful. So if you want to impress a woman at work or just in a bar, try to be polite to the waiter or open the door for an old man. Do the good things. Women appreciate these qualities in men since; they think you would take care of them the same way.
If you find a woman you like and needs help, don’t hesitate and go help her. This will give you a chance to talk to her and maybe exchange numbers. If you’re in a bar and you see that someone is bothering the woman you’ve been staring at for hours, then don’t wait. Don’t over do anything or get in trouble by hitting anyone, just go up to the guy and see how you can help him. It’s only in high school that girls like boys who are troublesome since they are usually the most popular, but in the real world women prefer “nice” men. You may feel hesitant to do this the first time, but think that there can be no negatives associated with this. Even if you don’t get the girl, which is impossible following this tactic, you’ll seem like a sweet guy.
If you are at work or elsewhere, never be mean to others, or yell loudly, etc., you never know who is watching you and when. Women like men who are soft-spoken and courteous to others. For the most part, this strategy should get you the girl you want, just remember to stay positive and don’t be afraid to take chances.
