I know it’s annoying, but unfortunately we just have to accept the fact that women are just fickle-minded creatures – PERIOD.
Women usually tend to say that they will do something at first, but then when the time comes to act on what they said, they suddenly turn around and do something else that is COMPLETELY DIFFERENT.
weird huh?
I could go on and on and get into a long discussion on this topic alone. But for the sake of saving time and shortening a long story, let me explain the main reason why women are so fickle.
Drum roll please. . .
It is because their lives are governed by their EMOTIONS.
Thank you. Thank you. You can all sit down and stop clapping now.
Women love to express what they FEEL right there when you ask them a question. But then, the moment you turn your back on them, they tend to act on their emotions when circumstances finally present themselves.
For example: Let’s say you were able to pick up a woman at a department store, after a phone call you were able to get her to meet you for coffee the next week. He arrives next week, but suddenly he doesn’t show up. You call her from her but then she doesn’t answer the phone and you don’t hear from her all day that day either. The next day, she just texts you to say that she couldn’t keep your appointment because something urgent came up.
Does any of this sound familiar to you?
So what do you think happened there? While you were talking to her on the phone the week before, she actually sounded very interested in you. You were teasing her, you were being unpredictable and defiant, it seemed like you were practically eating her out of your hands. She seemed very interested in you, she was also looking forward to your date the week before. But then, it was game time and somehow she didn’t feel like seeing you anymore. Did she just forget about your date? Or is it possible that she changed her mind that day?
good. Yes of course. WHATEVER.
The reality is, when a woman says one thing and then does something completely different, she perceives the action as completely acceptable because in her mind she was just following her instincts. Her decisions are usually guided by her emotions.
Of course, from a man’s point of view, if a woman says one thing, then turns around and does something completely different, she’s automatically a phony with no integrity.
And who can blame men for thinking that way, really.
Don’t worry though, it’s not just you who usually stands up, but your family and friends stand up as well so you’re not alone.
So how are you supposed to respond to this?
STAY IN TOUCH anyway.
There are times when a girl you just met who didn’t seem even remotely interested in you at first suddenly turns around and tells you that she’s crazy about you.
And there are also times when women who seem to be crazy about you initially won’t even return your phone calls after a few weeks have passed.
I know it’s weird, but it’s best to keep in touch anyway. And don’t worry, as you become more and more experienced in the dating world, the percentage of women who do this to you will decrease as well. Don’t burn any bridges yet, just stay close, but not TOO around.
Just make sure you have other options while you’re doing this so it doesn’t smack of desperation.
