In his best-selling PDF download, Text Your Ex Back, Michael Fiore talks about using “best of relationship” texts as part of an overall plan to get your ex back after a breakup. The central idea is that carefully crafted text messages sent from your iPhone or other smartphone can open your ex up to the idea of getting back together.
It may seem far-fetched to some, but these are generally the people who underestimate texting as a powerful and extremely useful form of communication that gives you incredible access to your ex in a personal, private, and intimate way.
The best relationship texts use emotional language to plant positive thoughts and emotions in your ex’s mind. They are based on the best memories and experiences that you and your ex have shared, so you will need to do a little research before you start using them.
Think about all the positive things that brought you and your ex together. What were the best experiences you shared together? Were they adventures? Were they romantic or sexual? Were they with friends and family? Through emotional language, you will take these memories and experiences and make them as real as possible so that your ex thinks of you in a positive light.
When you start texting your ex, the best of relationship texting is not going to be your best option. You need to establish some communication with your ex before you start using them. In Text Your Ex Back, Michael Fiore recommends using a text “through the bow” to get things rolling. Only then do the best relationship texts come into play.
So how do you combine the best of relationship texts with emotional language to create a powerful text message effect that will resonate with your ex? You have to understand what emotional language is.
Says Michael Fiore, “Emotional language is the words that bypass the critical mind of whoever you’re talking to and appeal directly to their ‘Lizard Brain’ in a way they almost can’t resist.” He uses an example of the word “hit” versus the word “erase”. Can you see how much more powerful the latter is?
When you use the best relationship texts, you will focus on the memories… good memories. So you will ask your ex to remember something positive and fun, and you will be directing that memory in his mind.
For example, “Remember that time we raced those Go Karts at the county track? You were so excited when you smacked my ass and spun me around so you could pass me and beat me. Brat. It was great though and you looked good in your cute and little racer’s helmet”.
Just remember to focus on fun, happy, and pleasurable experiences to make your ex think positive thoughts about you.
