What is the best way to get a probative psychic reading from a medium? How can you tell if a psychic, medium, or spiritual “professional” is actually communicating with spirit…instead of reading your mind, doing a cold reading, or just guessing?
The truth is that the actual questions you ask during a reading with a medium are incredibly important when it comes to evaluating and measuring how “real” the information really is.
Sure… we ALL want to be excited, inspired, and hopeful that our loved ones will live on after they die, which IS, in fact, the main reason so many people turn to psychics and mediums in the first place.
But, if the medium is just guessing, or making stuff up, or just giving you a fraction of the “proof” you crave, the fact is you will NOT get the kind of evidence or experience you really want. ask. (simply because you will always feel doubts about the details that came up)
The solution is simple: PREPARE for your reading and know what you need to know before the session begins.
Here are some examples of the kinds of questions that are great to ask and that provide the BEST kind of overwhelming evidence that the outlet is genuine and isn’t using tricks or techniques to tell you what you want to hear.
ASK for spirit guidance before beginning. In other words, reach out to loved ones you’d like to know about, if only in your own mind, and ASK for a sign.
Ask for a token. Tell them you want to get something specific out of the medium that provides overwhelming evidence that they are really “there” during your session.
DO NOT allow the medium to offer very general and broadly applicable information during the reading that you know in your heart is not specific to you. (for example, it’s very common during a head-to-head race for a “cold reader” to use your age, demeanor, and body language to guess why you’ve come, and then spin a story around that to make it seem like it’s coming from the spirit, when instead… it comes from YOU!
DO write pseudonyms, unique experiences and events, and very specific things you shared with people you’d like the outlet to connect with.
When this happens, and this kind of information DOES appear, it is the best evidence of an afterlife, especially when you know in your bones that there is NO way the reader could have guessed, made up, or picked up this information from any other source. that is not spirit.
Lastly… DO keep an open mind, but DON’T allow yourself to be so open that your proverbial “brains” fall out. There are many, many amazing mediums and spiritual advisors working in the world today, but there are many others who care more about SHOWING than telling.
So be insightful, be smart, and be spiritually aware of what you want to know, and let the Universe (and your loved ones) do the heavy lifting to PROVE that you really are still there! (because THAT is the best evidence there is, and the kind of experience that CAN change your life forever too)
